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VANCE-NEWS . Butler, 65, , died late (Dec. 18, Jbble Hospital been a sur- ADVAN(T,i\IUo SUNDAY, DF.CTA1RFR 24, 1967 lOec^-Aii r By ABIGAIL VAX Bl/RKN ;.shc bravely put him into the DEAR ABBY: Airs. Smith;anus of another? Does she now proudly writes that, she lias!love another man, and does he solved her children's birthday!treat her well? \What kind of party problems by taking ice!man does part of me call cream and cake to school and! \Dad?\ treating the whole class. , , „ The teacher, she yavs, coop-! l shall never know the an- erates, and there'is\no fuss,! 8 *? 1 ? to . lhese t W^°™ that no muss, and no frayed nerv-!\'' 11 f hau ™ me t o m ? &* v f' for my first love was sent abroad by her family to have our es. For whom? Perhaps not for the mother. But, I am a teacher and if a mother come to me with such a suggestion I would quickly tell her that I am paid to teach, not to give parlies. Furthermore, multi- ply this scene by 30 or 35, and considerable teaching time is lost. When I first began to teach r (and taught in a school that allowed it), I co-operated with one of those no-fuss, No-muss mothers who brought the birthday party to school. Games were played and ex- citement ran high. The moth- er sat back wringin hands while I. tried my best to control the over-stimulated child, and I have kept my pro- mise never to pursue her. I am married now. and, tho I have a fine \legitimate'' fam- ily of my own, my first child, born of [hat sweet dark-haired girl, shall always be my very \special\ one. Perhaps things turned out best for all concern- ed, for f was but a lad of 19, and she was 17. I shall never know. WONDERING IN MONTREAL DEAR ABBY: The letter from \Steven's Mother\ hit me like a thunderbolt, for 1 am the nei .i father of an illegitimate daugh- ter. When she was three, four, youngsters.,Two children up- and five, I'd window-shop, and chucked their hastily gulped: mentally \buy\ dozens of refreshments eall over th; beautiful, fluffy dresses for rav floor. (No fuss, no muss, aye''};i i(tle gi ,.j_ rd W andcr thru toy Abby, please tell mothers s i, op s a t Christmas lime and to give their children s birth- ac i l e because I couldn't send day parties at home. Thank; some loy s | 0 her. And during you. ! her teen-age vears, I would PAID TO TEACH loo k iMo lh e j accs ()f al l lh e DEAR PAID: Hundreds or teen-aged girls I'd see, and PAG E SEVENTEEN With Trooper-, Wni4 IVhlhe Hospital GARDEN Chili TEA - Members of the Ogdensbu.g Garden Club hohl their annua! Chnstmas Tea on Tues- day, Dec. 19, at the home of Mrs. Dommick Pagano, 516 Caroline .St. Standing left to right: Mrs. William O'C'on- nell M--> Pagano Mis D Winklei and Mrs Fr„n^ Schwartz Pouring Mis Lawrence B r aid and M:s LCJ Fortune. 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And they qualified their en- dering if per h aps one of them thusiasm with IF the mother wasn - t my daugliter. tidies up the room and leaves it as she found it. ' I am old enough to be a DEAR ABBY: The woman grandfather now, and wonder 'bigs who complained about her'if 1 am. I don't know about all - v husband going to stag parties other fathers of illegitimate reminds me of this story: ;children, but here is one who Two men were in the bar-'has never stopped thinking ber shop getting haircuts. The: about his. barber finished with the first 1 .. BACH ELOR FATHER { DEAR ABBY: I MOTHER\ asks, British Mercenary, 24, Serving In His Third Army In Vietnam, Is Unworried About Killing views aim , wonder if my daughter looked By BILL BANTEY liam <\ ven if * e French had I Vietnam without changing citi-iLivingslon wears a The only'iitp t | 1a l W h»n cho h,« om „ m '(Montreal_Gazette Staff Writer) still been fighting here. izetwhip - or eba there's the'R's another soil of DA NANG, Vietnam — The; \1 wanted to be fighting andipossibility of joining the Hong ghost of a smile crossed Sgt.jthere was a war here. It's as;Kong police. Hong Kong, he Livingston's features. His fing-j simple as that.\ j notes, is hardly a tranquil spot, ers flicked at a speck of red-! — !either. dish dust on his Marine fa-j THE AVERAGE AMERICAN ' tigues. ; soldier spends 12 months in 1 TWICE INJURED IN V1ET- \I've never had any misgiv-iVietnam and then is happy tojnam, Livingston laughs off lhe about killing profession-'call it quits. Livingston extend-!medals he's been awarded — bracelet \decora- tion\ — a sign that he's been accepted as a blood brother of the Mofl'tagrtardis, the moun- tain tribesmen on the western border of South Vietnam. \It's been a terrific experi- ence here,\ says Livingston \When 1 joined the Marines and the danger of death. j in Buffalo in February, 1%5, I \The first time 1 was caught felt they were the best military terrible ambush, I recall organization in America. It', thinking to myself as I jumped into a trench, \Dammit I'll he said finally. \I used ed his tour of duty for another to think it would be terrible 12 months/ which \expire at the to see your buddies killed but end of January, even that doesn't really affect; He'd probatory stay on even me.\ ! lhen except that having held Alistair Livingston — the a commission in the Canadian i have to change uniform When I name alone belies the picture Army — Toronto has been his! I get back.\ I suppose it was •'STEVEN'S;of a mercenary — is 24 years home since 1962 — he no longer;an incongruous thought. \Does the!old. He looks as though he is satisified to serve in the; \But they give you medals in college but ranks. To get an American| here like water. I'll look like a ever think about his precious j the fact is he has served in-commission, he would have to hero when I go back. I even \hoiit that time the second! offspring? \ tll e arnled Fwces o f thres dif-'give up his British citizenship have a Purple Heart and clus- soldier, mail was finished and the bar-! Being the father of nnP J fe T eni :. c ? untr '^r ?f^ in ' Can ^ thi s he fe ml P^P^ to |le r - It would have taken me:__\I could imagine the Roy a aha asked, would you like little hair tonic? The man r ,.' , ^ -i-„ ,;«l,f l ^AVJii l SJv^ee^ollo^oii^ther of an illegitimate child> g h t still ill repute! J- AVinut th an opinion I still hold. \If I had stayed in the Can- adian Army, I probably never would have had a chance to fight at all. The policing job that the Canadians are doing for the UN is wonderful but it's not a job for a professional ber asked him if he wanted!feel qualified to answer. Yes, some hair tonie. He replied.:every month, when 1 make out Yes, please. MY wife has nev-ithe support check, ef' been to a house of ill re-! \STEVEN'S FATHER\ pule. . i DEAR ABBY: This is for The point of my story is 1 \Steven's Mother.\ I was a this: How does a complaining; Merchant Seaman for many woman know so much? I have;y ears> and j n a [j my eX p er j ence stag party, but I have seen ; j rcca n having heard only one never seen a naked woman at man j ; ,i' K a (, llu t nLS illegitimate some strippers came pretty!child. In fact, he said that he close to it in some public bars; | la d fathered four. A pair of where women sat in the front twins in Lima. Peru, one in rows. Also, I understand that:Europe, and one in the U.S.A 30me women are not averse; All boys. As for myself, I never : to-going places where they; had any, At least none that 1 are served by topless waitres-j knew of. ' ses so what are they corn- father of one, I' ada and 1WW tte us . 1 and ! do . Vietnam has been his happiest; The future is uncertain. He's moment because he was a man thinking in terms of the Aus- in search of a war. !tralian Army — he could get \1 would have come to Viet-a commission and return to 25 years to get as many decor- ations in the 48th Highlanders,\ (the outfit he served with in Canada). 22nd Regiment doing an excel- lent job here but Canada, given its size, can probably make much better contribution to the OX HIS RIGHT WRIST'world through the UN.\ From The Bridge By ROBERT MOSES LIVINGSTON FEELS, HOW- j ever, Commonwealth forces \ would have fought the war dif- ' fcrcntly — \they would have sent their troops right into the I field. j \The Australian units here, 1 for example, are trained in ways interested, considerate,^less of Italy's government to-i un § l e f >gMing. They could do _, | keen, shrewd and eager to help !provide a pavilion at the fair. I a fa r better i o b thm they're THE PASSING OF NEW 'the call of ecclesiastical duties .objections of the Bureau of i n l | doing but they're deeply invol- YORK'S GREAT CARDINAL 'and obligations within the par-Iter-national Expositions, and dif-1 ved i n f ivic action work now. ARCHBISHOP, LATER CAR-'ish and the diocese. He was ' fieulties in enlisting large Ital-I \They're not being used to RETIREDiDINAL SPELLMAN, a gradu-jthe universal man. He was forlian insustries such as Fiat, wel lllle ' r fuU . extent. The reason Troubled? Wrile to Abby, 'ate of Fordham, long identified! integration before it became a j were doubly anxious to make' probably is that the Australian Box 69700, Los Angeles, CaL ! with the Vatican, came back to I slogan of politicians. I thinklthe Vatican Pavilion a major • People back home are not pre- 90069. For a personal reply' 'the New York diocese from!of him as a stalwart conserva-jfeature of the fair, and to thatiP ar , ed t o fu- ffer high casualties inclose a stamped, self- INew England. His predecessor ! tive in a-n age of doubt, sceptic-:end sought a single, immortal'*™ so, the Australian forces addressed envelope. ' !had been a noble, other worldly! ism, iccnociasm, restlessness,; work of art at once symbolic ofr h€ j re are Just.a sort or a sop. For Abbv's booklet \How to s P' ritua l leader. The phvsical! and random attacks on ancient; the Roman Catholic Church,!. Livingston ,5 no t impressed «v-,i thP,, hP niches to the Have a Lovelv Wedding\ send !sid e <* the C h u re Ir eternal verities, a student of! the Italian Renaissance, and; b y *?. s « u * h Vietnamese kvmy TV setShSut a word? andSl-OOto Abby, Box WOO, Taj had been neglected. The task t history convinced, that no, great? the universal appeal of Chris-!\ \H ^ rather be hghting plaining about? --• ANN ARBOR,, MICH. •DEAR ABBY: I have a mes-, sage for the wife who sign-! ed' herself \IGNORED.\ You are not alone. My hus-j band eats his dinner like he; is a fugitive from a good 1 Very truly yours, 90069. leaves me sitting alone at the Angeles, Ca table. In the morning he eats —— — his breakfast with his head in ! j\||§§ £(|^g] Poftei* Joins The 25-Year .confronting the new head of' institution should impulsively Uantty. ,side-by-side with the North Vi- toniroming me n w neaa 01 traditions until new letnamese Army.\ He explains reconciling spiritual and admin- dadnmn iidmuoris unt-u new] m»r»fe*rlv onlv [ hk a: «, Kim »ni n f eh* f™«- ! ? Iwira-tiv* Wripr<jh™ «-« foi-miH iwa y« manitestlv better are mi lnwe , \ a u s . , fT,, Y ,, -,i m s a ^ essraent o t clle tormera ! ib^ Ir d^a&wmeC^^^pect. He was of the old^ work which ulfdled al 1 of;military through \the system of ( ao.e. it demanded, something HI believer in the thes e objectives-Michelangelo's, bribery and corruption\ by 'Kljufto^ ^^on wrStoXr^vSI-P^\ -a^ d we therefor pre- ! w«ch its officers are naoied ! Cardinal Newman, Cardinali founded, against which the gat- j Spell man was a great believer 'in limited objectives. Newman :once wrote: \Keep thou my feet: I do not ask to see The distant scene enough for me.\ of hell could not prevail. out of the house. 1 keep flexing my tongue to give it some exercise so it^JuD At AlCOa doesn't go into a state of para- ; p nRTPR lysis. Take Abby's advice and. ™» bT \EL PORTER condition yourself to the sal- . Llabo n ~ * llss ^ I. .Por- eat i e Some men never ^- an em P^ ^ Aluminum rfranep [Company of America, Massenaj SAN DIEGO jOperations, became a member! DEAR ABBY: This is the|°f the company's 25-year Ser-i first letter I have ever written I vic e Club - | to a column, but when I saw] Miss p or(er uas mnt u ' [faitiMul, and he offered hisjjectkws aside and said that he thV letter signed \Steven's! entir e Alcoa Career j^ the In jj oc i; A D„f„ Mr T rt ;«c' haini d and heart to a11 who,_ in!recognized all the difficulties AS MILITARY VICAR OF the U.S., the cardinal insisted that every youth can not de- cide in his wisdom whether he one step; will serve or not, and that those who obey the call to duty would I think of the cardinal as a 1- have ail the consolations of the \ 1 faithful, and he offered sented this idea to Cardinal!He watched their operations in Spellman, at the same time an,the field during 18 months' ser- tic-ipating the inevitable objec-jvice with long-range reconnais- tions - that transporting thisjsatrce units. irreplaceable sculpture was un-i precedented, that it was fraught: HE BELIEVES THE UNI- with danger of damage and that j ted States is right in its war it was contrary to the conserva-j in Vietnam. \America he live practices of the hierarchy The cardinal brushed these ob- Mother\ I had to write. She dus trical Engineering Depart- asked, \Do the fathers of 1 - ment wit h su bsequent assign- legitimate children ever think ments of clerk ^ general derk about them? ' and statistical clerk, before be- 'I can speak for only one;|ing ijn g , father. Myself. And the answer j itio n is yes, I do. To know ihat; c | er k somewhere I have a son I shall i never see is the worst punish-1 Miss Porter was born in Lis- ment I shall ever have to beaivbon and graduated from Og- I -shall never know the joy of ! densburg Free Academv in 1930, seeing rav son take his first land from Potsdam State Nor-I or g anization ' s Program named to her present pos- advance statistical ibefore the world's great altar]directly to the Holy Father, stairs that lead through dark ness up to God. Leslie Putney Joins Holstein - Friesian Breed Program Lisbon — Leslie Putney has joined the junior membership ranks of Holstein-Friesian As- sociation of America. Nearly 13,900 youngsters are now ac- „. , , , , ,. , lively enrolled in the breed |Mwhelfngelo was brotjgrt to whatever name or creed, fall!but agreed to take the request:next. says, \is the only country with the capability of fighting Com- munism. If South Vietnam goes, Cambodia and Thialand will be WITHOUT CARDINAL JSPELLMAN'S interposition and My own personal friendship! enthusiastic sponsorship, we with Cardinal Spellman wasighould not have received the singularly fortunate and rewar- ding. It was due solely to his efforts that the \Pieta\ of steps. I'll not be able to take'mal School in 1935. She reciev- him for his first haircut, oried her Bachelor of Science De- teach him how to ride a bicycle,'gree in Education from Buffalo or take him fishing. Or share State Teachers College in 1942. the, pride of seeing him grad-' She is a member of the uate from high school and col- 1 First Congregational Church of lege. These heartaches 1 shall Lisbon. She held the office of have to live with all my life. | treasurer of that Church and is My only consolation is in the;also a member of the Evening knowledge that hopefully his]Circle. She is a member and adoptive parents will give him past matron of Fulton Chapter, the love of a mother and father,No. 515, Order of the Eastern who are married to each other. [Star at Waddington. She was 1 New iFair. York for the World's In view of the unwilling-.thronged To qualify, member eandi-,: ites must be of age and have successfully;! dates must be under 21 years pJ Cunningham After all, without Vietnam. completed one. year's work '\Appointed AsSt. (I couldn't.) Yes, I think of my honored on the occassion with land receive regular reports of a 4-H or vocational agriculture dairy project. Individual own-'p_ c LJ 0r Af D pn k ership of at leasl one Register- VjdMllCI /\l UdlllV ed Holstein is also required. j Canton — The Board of Di- Junior members of the na-' rectors of the St. Lawrence Francis Cardinal Spellman tional Association are entitled j County National Bank also ap- was our first citizen. RIP to all privileges except voting.'pointed Paul J. Cunningham to They may register and transfer!the office of Assistant Cashier, their animals at member rates Mr. Cunningham has been with nihil obslat of the Pope, who added other significant exhibits and made the Vatican Pavilion a paragon of eoumenieism. Day and night this pavilion was with visitors. The at- tendance exceeded 26,000,000. Pope Paul visited it in the clos- ing days. It was without doubt; Alistair Livingston would be the high poifli! of the fair and!professional soldier without a this like so many other couti- war to fight, butions to society and peace, I And that would be too much we owe with thousands of less!for a man who is following in conspicuous acts of kindness to the military footsteps of his He father, his grandfather and his ' great-grandfather. \The mistake of the Ameri- cans was in not making a deal with Ho Chi Minn in 1954. He could have become another Tito and all of Vietnam, another Yugoslavia. \As things stand now, I can't imagine an end to the war for the next 10 years.\ The smile is back on Sgt. Livingston's face as he says ills. illegitimate child. Constantly, [gifts and she was taken out to ANOTHER STATISTIC idinner. DEAR ABBY: Count me as; She resides at Route 2, Lis- one father who has thought a ban •good deal about his illegitimate child. I have suffered lhe agon- ies of countless doubts, not knowing whether my beloved bore me a son or a daughter. BEFORE FIRE ENGINES FRANKFORT, Ky. (AP) - Many Kentucky settlers built their log chimneys so that thev Did the wee one survive? How [could be collapsed by pulling on is his mother? Did she keep the a key log, in case the chimneys cUuU lu roar herself, o:' did caught fire. breed and organization prog- ress. More than 44,200 young Hol- stein breeders have participat- ed in the program since its start in 1923. the bank for two years. For many years, he was an accountant for Smithers' Buick and Brown's Dodge. Mr. Cun- ningham is an assistant loan officer at the Main Office of the bank, in Canton, and is a grad- -— [uate of Canton schools and The average U.S. family studied accounting at the State spends 5.9 per cent of its income j University of New York Agri- for education and recreation,!cultural and Technical College, according to government He is a brother of Chief ot figures. 'Police James A. Cunningham.| GALA NEW YEAR'S EVE PARTY Dec. 31, 9 PM - 3 AM • ORCHKSTRA • FAVORS • BUFFET LCNCH AT 1 AM -» FOR COUPLES ONLY • RESERVATIONS A MUST • TICKETS AVAILABLE AT THE BAR EDDIE'S RESTAURANT 109 MAIN STREET. OODENSBURG, PH 383-1520 PHOTO STOP DOWNTOWN FORD ST. OGDENSBURG OPEN SUNDAY FROM 10:30 TO 5 P.M. For The Last Minute Shopper We Carry Complete Line Of • Recor d Albums — Tapes • AMBASSADOR Greetin g Cards • Fil m & Camera Supplies • Radio s — Recor d Players • Recorder s • Musical Instruments ^S> tyj^Uwde**^ SUPER SUNDAY XMAS SPECIAL POLAROID FILM LOWEST PRICE EVER OFFERED... 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