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1^*^^ Srfe^- ... ~**fr* \^JT^T ^T\/* as --ft?,* r «!iil)liiiuilii'ii liu it HtlSS-HttUILICAN—MONDAY, NOVIMilR 2$, %9U •JiUtf^ vv*s^ ir ; * 3*.*: &**•• , sitting as punishment T*y< .* ^r vv*v. *yv*,,< .Hum:,* iwt conimilor te tat itt fa at t penalty far ipactflc mfe- committed la the I began wtth 30 yean ago when I £ .?•£• *»£^ ^T^^ibt^ * r'v-av*;; By GAHRT C MYEBS, PhA began this column and have ban repeating it often during the years since. Many parents have been writ- ing me to §ay It 1*1*2 >-*i*vr ''^^wfih'arfi* ^~ »TD Q. i~Beth vutardrfe, as t> PaM INT 1 V Vase ? What *> you bid A.—Thrm wm tmmp. WW* tt It tprw ttot P^rtXHTi Jump r*M* U pot forcing^ MN^rtlMrtMt y+ur i*» «p*n»t y« ImJ on ftouod vahMi •Ad 4MI Bet imhw aay chadta*. ?»• tevtbw call ** thr** no la therefore recemmciKlt*. Q. 2—East West vulnerable, as South you hoid: +4S42 <?JS3 CKQ1IT +5 Hie bidding has proceeded: North East Sooth West S * Paw 1 0 Pass 1 <? Pass ? What do you bid now? A.—Happy to luv* improved the contract, ,-ou >HOUM relax •nd feel th» ou have done your full duty Y this hand. There la ao second .all that should even tempt you Q. 3—Both vulnerable, as South you hold: *A1SSS<?AJ1*752 0**73 The bidding has proceeded: North East Sooth West 1 0 Pass 1 V Pass t + Pass 2 * Pass S * Pass 3 <? Pass g * Pass ? What do you bid now? A.—TWn*-f have not progressed Very smoothly. Partner presum* ably has five cards in each of the minors and only three spades. Wtth four spades he would have supported that suit at once in- stead of returning to clubs. He, therefore, win not have enough trumps to handle your heerU. Tfels misfit caBs violently for a pass. Q. 4-Both sides vulnerable and as South you hold: 4AKS43 <?7 0AJS3 +AKS The bidding has proceeded: Soot* West North East 1 * Dbk. 2 * p m t What do you bid now? A^-Four dubs, In fact we •ould not look askance it ad). feet leap to fame. Altho partner's Md over the double does not Stow strength. It should be based •n a long club suit which is just •bout all you require from him tf> score a game. Q. S—Both vulnerable, as South you bold: *QJ <?KfS 0 S7i +AK1SM ' The bidding has proceeded; North 1 <? Pass S * S + Pass T What do you bid now? A,—Happy days are here. Part* ner has described a holding that contains five hearts and four spades, but, what is more, by bid- ding has emU ta this order has advertised a stroag hand, one containing the eejurvalent of ai least IS points. A Ud W six haarts is therefore set eejt ef hne, but a call of five hearts weald hardly pUoe the seme 1M jeopardy sad that U tbe caU tbat rcceires our first choke, Q. «—East-West vulnerable, as South you bold: 4A1II3 <?J1M 0AQJI7S The bidding has proceeded: Soath West North East 1 0 Pass I <? Pass ? What do you bid now? A.—The suggested bid is one spade. There are several choices which Include rebtdding dia- monds and supporting hearts. The hand is too strong for a mere two diamond rebid, and not quite strong enough for a jump to three diamonds, so that the choice narrows down. While the bid of one spade is not forcing, partner will nevertheless in these circumstances exert every effort to speak again and a better idea of the concents of his hand mas/ be obtained from his next move, Q. 7—Both vulnerable, as South you hold: *K843<?KS2 OAK 4 3 * J I Partner opens with one club. What is your response? A.—Inasmuch as your hand is the equal of an opening bid it is your purpose to reach a game contract. You have the necessary values £14 points} for a two so trump response and such a csei is acceptable. My own preference, however, is for a temporising bid of one diamond, to afford part* her the opportunity to show a mild four card spade suit at the level of one. In that case 1 would support the major. If the three of spades were a club the only ac* ceptabm response would be two no trump. Q» S-As South you bold: «S4VKJlit?2 0AK4*tS The bidding has proceeded: East Soath West North 19 Pass Pass . Pass What Is your opening lead? trumps at ones to w cUrer from using; aosr'of his BtUe ones for ruffing. The best lead is the king of hearts. This allows for the remote chance that my or partner has a queen. If declarer has the ace sad queen, it makes no differ* ence because he most make both. Na Diversions If he wishes to talk to you while sitting in tbe chair, re- spond to him as if there were nothing irregular, but not about anything related to hi* ponistv It's how you take it that counts By ANN LANDERS shorten nor lengthen the time because of how be acts. Hold strictly to the announced time. No indeterminate sentence for him. Getting this procedure well (Continued on Page 17) H I could \sellV the proce- dure widely among young par- eats 1 would fed I had made a useful contribution. More and more parents then would be able to control effectively their youngsters in the early years. Fewer children would be spank- ed or whipped. Practically all physical pun* ishment coukl be abandoned by the time tbe youngster en- ters school, without the loss of cootroffing him. I consider chair-sitting the most effective and humane way for control- ling young children. Beside* many parents who would hes- itate to delegate authority to a baby-sitter or other parent-sub- stitute to spank their child might readily approve his re- straining him with chair-sitting. Start Early I can't imagine a parent able to begin with \sitting\ as a penalty before the youngster has learned to respect the lit- tle word No. New is be likely to have acquired this learning without having received some physical pain, as spanking by the parent's bare flat hand on his thighs, for specific forbid- den acta. H you are wise and consis- tent you have successfully trained your tot from the time he begins to toddle, certainly by the age of 2, to respect this little word No. Then he's ready for the \chair.\ Being so small you can easily lift him up and seat him on a chair or a low box or lowest step on the stairs. Later he will have learned to put himself there when you tell him to. Respect Of * No\ You won't need to hold him there or tie him. Having learn- ed through pain to respect No, be knows that if he gets down too soon he wiH be spanked | chances are great that there soundly. If you have been con- \ is some infection in the nose sisterrt he won't risk this dis- comfort. When you assign him to sit. Dear AM Leaders: For 2S years I have been married to a woman who has multiple sderoris, a crippling disease. If I held an 8 to 5 Job I could ment Let hto cry as much if 1 •*•«••, #*i.4«# +*** uu> *»«* i be pleases but don't give Itof^^ffftW ^JLS!L} any book or toy then or let Urn have radio, TV or anything else to amuse him. Neither would need to hire a compan Ion for my wife. Instead, I ar- ranged things so I am close by and yet not a handmaiden to her. I own and operate a sum- mer camp for boys. In the win- ter I run a ski lodge. I'm an active, fiHV-loving 47 who enjoys mountain cliihbing, skiing* horse-back riding, camp- Postnasal drip and its causes By LESTER COLEMAN, MJ). What causes a postnasal drip and what can be done about it? Tbe complaint of postnasal drip is probably one of the most frequent ones beard by physicians and specialists of diseases of tbe ear, noee and throat It is a rather vague term much like catarrh used to be at tbe tiffn of the century. It is vague because it is used by patients to describe a feel- ing or sensation rather than an actual illness. During health, the nose, the back of the nose aod the phar- ynx are covered by thin, watery secretions which are helpful as lubricants and prevent the deli- cate mucus membrane from drying out. These secretions, it must be emphasized, are nor- mal. Under some circumstances the secretion becomes very pro- fuse or may change into a thick yellow or green dis- charge. When this happens the and dust may be responsible for postnasal drip. The treatment is directed to the underlying cause when it is found. Allergies can be treated by (^sensitization and drugs. Sinus infections can be treated by special irrigations and the antibiotics. Tobacco, (Continued on Page 17) iqg and fishing. I'm becoming frustrated because of what I am missing. I'd give anything to put my arms around a wom- an and feel the response of her arms around me. I want to walk into a dining room with a woman at my side. 1 want to dance and swim and hike with a woman who shares my love of nature. I ache for the com- panionship of a female who can do something with me besides sit. It it possible to share such pleasures with another woman without becoming emotionally involved? I doubt it. So what am I to do? What about others who are married to crippled mates? Can you give us some realistic advice? I will sing this letter but please don't use my name. — Signature Withheld. Dear Friend: It would be easy to respond with pious platitudes but your frankness and honesty deserve better. Frequently when I lack the knowledge or experience to ad- vise a reader I call on an ex- • pert. The expert I have asked! to respond to your letter is a I Chicago colleague. His answer tells you more about him than I ever could. Here it is: Dear Mr. —: Ann Landers has asked me to answer your! letter. I don not have Ann's wis dom, but I do have intimate knowledge of your problem since I have lived with it for W years. There is no universal solution because the needs, the tempera- ment and the personality of each individual differ. A solu- tion that makes sense to me may be totally unacceptable to you. You say many normal activi- ties are denied you because of your wife's affliction. I hope you have not magnified the im- portance of these activities merely because you feel you are being cheated. Some men have wives who can dance all night, but they have bitterly unhappy marriages. Your wife's disability is trag- ic, but it would be infinitely more tragic if you allowed it to embitter you. Try to think of her misfortune as your oppor- tunity for personal fulfillment How many people feel truly needed? Well, you are. If you are frustrated and restless because of the things you are missing I suggest you keep it to yourself. Remember your wife is missing some things, too. I also suggest that you steer clear of \companion- able\ relationships with other women. Such relationships are difficult — perhaps impossible — to control. The first step in your adjust- ment is to forget the alterna- tives. Make up your mind that you will go dancing again when your wife can go with you. Re- missions do occur. Nothing is impossible. In the meantime take her wherever you can, even in a wheel chair. Keep her hopes alive. Encourage her to exercise and do whatever she can to feel useful. I work with my wife every evening in therapy sessions. She has giv- en me' some real lessons in courage. We all admire maturity, self- lessness and compassion but no one is born with these qualities. Circumstances have given you a real opportunity to acquire them. As Ann Landers says, \It's not what happens to us, but how we take it that counts.\ — Anonymous, Please • * » Too many starry-eyed lovers do not know the difference. Do you** Send for Ann Landers' booklet, \Before Vou Marry — Is It Love Or Sex°\ enclosing with your request 20 cents in coin and a long, self-addressed, stamped envelope. Ann Landers will be glad to I help you with your problems. I Send them to her in care of j this newspaper enclosing a I stamped, self - addressed en- I velope. PlAMlS '' i » Uii™-*-* ^ or in the sinuses. Allergic noses pour out a great deal of thin fluid. For tell him it will be for 15 or 20} this condition an antihistamine minutes. Don't guess. Follow is beneficial. It is well-known tbe clock. If you tell him to . that people with allergic noses \stay there tiU I let you get! are more prone to develop in- down/ 1 he will work on your i fections on top of the under- nerves and feelings. But the! lying condition. clock never gets nervous or has j Tbe irritation of smog in a headache. j heavily polluted areas, tobacco < u VOU LL PILE CHARGES AND TESTIFY, MISS? 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