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____ _ ROCKLAND COUNTY EVENING JOURNAL (Ny..< U .Ev*nin« Journ«l) FRIDAY, DECEMBER 27. 1929 RAGE SEVl THE EVENING JOURNAL ’ S MAGAZINE PAGE hUilbU MK&. l.l.fc.WlLLl.YM MUKGAN DONT TAKE CHILD WHEN AN EXPERT IS TO BE CONSULTED Of Fear Bad — Dr. Myers ^*ole: Carry C. Mycrt, Ph. D., i* head, Pafentat Kducation, Clevetand CoUepe, irc#l ern Jicatrva Vntvert^v, and editor of Babyhood] By GARRY C. MYERS, PH. D. T IGRP^ It no light in tho pantry and it It nearly dark. ” I trlali you would go to the pantry for tome carrotfl. Dan atarts oft but toon returnt A-ltli, too ti^ed mother. ” * ‘ NoV, Dan, yxiu know you flbblng. You are afraid. Nothing there to hurt you. ” Dan is five. The mother suopecting that Dan was afraid should have ac Cfpted bis ex planatlon with out suggesting that afraid DR MTER8 nilsrepresenti n g tho fact. She [! should have gone herself, or have [•ffered him a reward, or have In- Iduced him in some other way to get I the carrots. *T have brought this girt In to you [today, doctor, because she won ’ t eat [what sbe should. She just worries I me to death. We havO awful scenes ■at the table eometlmea She' upsets l^the whole family. I thought you ould tell mo what to do.” Sylvia, seven years of age. is slt- Ltlng there while her mother pictures fher eating problems In great detail rand describes the annoyance tp the Imothcr by the child. Sylvia never I happier moment. She discovers ^hat she not only had been- forcing |tbe family to pay her a great deal vt attention at home, but that her another has grown desperate over >^licn you go to see your doctor out the child whose conduct you A'lsh to correct better leave the child |it home, for the first visit at least. You are sitting at the dinner table nd Toby (Iropk some remarks about Us teacher which suggest to you that has done something which you ongly disapprove. Suppose you. k remark or gesture. ln<UOeie that are displeased by what the teacher la alleged to have done. Then you do her an injustice making a |udgment from a ono*sl«led and. no uubt, biased testimony: you en- flurago your child to engage in un- ktnd remarks About |»ersons In their (tiisnce; you demonstrate poor ortsmaoship: you stoop to the level mere gossip; you make the khild more critical of hie teacher. |nd lees manly, and leas likely to ent In school from her. You dam- your child's character, his edu- |aUon. and you help to whste the money you hnro paid. If you hink eom>'' things are not going right |l 8choe( wait a few days until you Vgnln your i>olse. and then have a yord with the teacher In the child'a ence. Qo to learn. If you are a! long other be a lady; If a man, be alnian Read \Creed Black Glass for Table Is New By LILIAN CAMPBELL the list of business assets piled by ’ Mrs. E!llxabeth Bears, of New York City, who is chairman of -the public relations committee of the Na tional Federation of Business and Professional Women's clubs. \It has saved me in a thousand I>on*t road it Of Beauty Over Often By MADAME RUBFNSTEIN |_|EIIK is a beauty creed for you to learn and keep through 19S0. B] and say, \This doesn't moan me. This Is all right for other wom en. ” because it dors mean you and every other woman a I i v i Think about seriously, or hu morously. or any other, way like. Pin it up on your kitchen Aull. if yo don ’ t want who nm to road, slip it into a cor ner of dressing table drawer. Put it an>*whurc. But read ver again und again. Rfmoniiier And follow the rules that go Mrs. ElissBAth Sssrs. dlOlcult situsaons. ” says Mrs. Beam, “ and often turned what might have been a failure into success ” A newspaper reporter at 15, roam ing the streets of Omaha in search of “ human interest ” copy. Mrs. Hears had frequent occasion to cull that sense of humor into play, and it was probably the frequently humorous slant of her stories which led to her rapid promotion on the staff of the paper. When ^(ra Sears decided to leave her home city for larger fleldn, she went to Kansas City, and later went east hofd*■several important edi torial positions. Among these was the editorship of a fliin journal. Hhe also ser\'ed as editor of the Iiide- l>*ndent Woman, the * federation ’ s magazine, and as publicity director for tho federatiu.i. She has been publicity director for an American film company, and associate editor of nationally known magazine. Mra. Bears also organized, and for some years managed, Bxpoqition of Women's Arts and Industries — a unique enterpriee for the promotion ‘ women. Next to a senee of humor Mrs. Bearn believes that a businesa worn- 's beat aasei is her w ’ llllngnesa to work hard, and she puts her own itWas into practice. Much of her day devoted to writing, hut she finds occasional opportunity to indulge her hobby, gardening. One of her axioms ith It! “ 1 t>e)leve; that there is great tieauty latent within me: and if others cannot see It. then that's my ’ t> fault. 1 believe that iny par ticular type of beauty is more satis factory for nio than any other type might develop through imitations; and If 1 use my w'jts .and patience 1 make my looks something for nuHlern poets (even) to rave about. “ 1 licllevc; that proper care Is es sential for any civilized nottCn of l>eauty; and that I must take regu lar care of my looks every day. 1 Ijelleve: that Pfoper care is simple, snd pleasant to take, as well os easy. I l>olteve that beauty is the greatest gift of all, und that I am falling down on my Job as a woman unless 1 make the most of every good gift 1 have, t ln'lieve: that my good looK$ total %cdl luctea$r during every day of rvt ry month of the year J930. ‘ * Mpke this your beauty cree<i. It is u true one, and inspiring, is it not? Think on It a while. Other rv-solu- tions f .r you to make and keep will follow*. But here is your creed. Theso are tiie things you must &c- Correspondent Desires Advice on Fine Points Of Wedding Etiquette By VIRGINIA LEE D ear V irginia lee : take great pleasure in read ing your discussions and answera to the many letters sent to the Living and Loving column. not coming to you with a real love affair, but merely to ask yoti to give me a few points concern ing wedding eti quette. •When ron- grmtul atlng a da ugh ter and husband, which docs a mother c ongratulate first, and what form is best to use for both? . ” 1 would also like to know of a simple menu that Whould be de licious and op- VltlQINlA LRB p r o p r late, and lici't' Tomorrow- and tomorrow and to morrow I rhuli give you your n tutl6ns-<-th« ’ suggestions that 1. your beauty Hpcctallst, make for you this.year. You, yourself, must do the resolving, however. No one else can do that for you. But I pledge my- es- ’ f to help you In every way that I And I promise you that if you /ol/oir these rules and resolutiona — -1/ you make and keep fhent truly — ) ’ Our 3930 will be u Ijeautiful, and a happy. New Year! By HILDA IIVST •^HEUE may bo nothing new under * tho sun. but here is something new under the candle light. It's bloL-k glass, or crystal, for the table. Wo have got used to plates and glasses and other table accessorl^ in amber, blue, green, rose and golii; but eating from black glass plates and drinking from a goblet with a black base is a new and rather stun ning idga. * It is quite in the modem trend, and smart for tho bridge party, huicheon or fonnal dinner. It has been taken up by the smarts hortess^ as quite le dernier cri. to complete the success of her luncheon party. The sketch showg a bridge table arranged for refreshments after the game. The piytes are.t>f tho black irb, instead of glass in square, instehd of round, shape, without any gold incnutatlon or other touch of contrasting oma- mentation. The tumblers are of the natural glass, which may be cut or plain, with square boseii of the black glass. In the center Is shown ' a lafge sectional glass dish or plate for the assorted sandwiches, tea cakes, or whatever my hostess pleases. Naturally, for the fonnal dinner tho black glass a*ould be used for serviro plates,.and glaases of several sizes would be required, such as the fruit cocktail, the water and the wine glass, which' are shown sketched in detail at the upper left of the sketch. All have the little square, black bases. The finger l»owls, however, have round black bases without flange, sketched at the lower left An odd shap^ vase In the modern trend is shown at the upper right. This is designed to fit comfortably and propo.'tlonately on the narrow shelf of the mantel. This may be of black, colored or natural glsaii, cording to the color scheme of the room. To Insure a Normal Childbirth WoiDan Must Be in Doctor ’ s Care how best seWed to a few wedding guests, whsre house room Is at a premium. JONORANCR ” I don't believe there is snr set fonn for a mother to use whea eon- gratulating her daughter after her wedding. Mothers ore ususlly too full of emotlpn to heed them if them were correct things to soy. You would naturally turn to your daugh ter first, kiss her and say, •'I hope you will be very happy, darling,* ’ something Uke that. ” Then kiss your son-in-law and welcome him into the family, telling him that ho is portly your boy now, or anything that comes Into your heart to say. As to the menu and way or serv ing. a buffet luncheon Is easily man aged. The guests could help thorn- selves at the table, and then 'take the food to. another room If the din ing room waa full. Chicken salad, hot buttered rolla olives, celery, tiny plcklea Ice cream,'cake and coffee is a good menu. Or you might cream the chicken ond serve it over hot bis cuits or in pattie shells for a first course. Cold sliced moat and scal loped potstoes could also l>e kerved. chicken a la king and mashed potatoes, etc. 1 very glad you enjoy the col umn. Thank you. a great deal for me. Now he wants mo to marry him verj* soon. He Intends to t^e lils tlUle^boy home when we get married; and I told him I want to be alone for awhile, lie says bo will fix it any way to please me. but he wants his little boy home when I got ready. “ Plftsae tell me what to do. De you think we will have trouble after we get married? “ VERY hfUCTH WORRIED. ” Are you fond of children? Do you really make friends with them, un derstand them and like to have them oboutT I don ’ t wonder your parents don't like tho Idea of you marrying a man with a child, because it Is not an easy tiling to do. even for an older woman who loves children. An own mother may do anything, but every word and action of a step-mother is criticised. It is no easy task for a young woman to be a wise mother to an* other woman's chllfi. And It is not easy always to be happy and con tented under those .circumstance^ You may, as a bride, be inclined to ha jealous of the litUe fellow and feel, that your husband pays too muoli , attention to him. \\ ■ It Is entirely up to you, my desr. If you feel you are a big enough i woman to Uckle the Job. all right. 1 wish you joy. because It Isr a very inuch worth while Job. and to do it successfully, will give you a very ) great deal of aatisfacUon. ---- ^ I think you are wise to Insist that Poems tfiat Live By UULU HUNT PETERS, M. D. Aiuu'rrt to Motlybrt Qod. could not be eoerytehere; therefore J(c made mothers. Jewish IToverb. Vou ’ ll never succeed until yo leant to like the things you'll have to do. ” lentlcman. It will paj*. Parij Journalist Vtshs U. 8. A. •Titayno, ” French woman journal who has wrllten much on th' ems short skirt for I ’ ari newspapers, is visiting h Tomorroie: C^od-Byes to Babies. I the United Htates of the American ^ 1 peels. ” Household Hints By MRS. MARY MORTON MENU HINT Mom Lrlth Bieeet Potatoes |a/.-eU Bptnach Corn Muffins 'PpM Salad Jumbles Tea Here ’ s a menu to bo baked in oven. ' The jumbles may be ^ade bofo^hnnd, the salad it pre- ared while the rest of the menu boks, and, of course, the table is H at that time, so the meal Is aickly prepared and will serve |>ur, if you use a food sited slice ’ ham> - Today's Roclpes ■•/amNci — One-half cup butter, one lip suga.. one ofg. one and three- iurths cups flour, two teaspoons Iking powder, White of one egf. |anched almonds, four tablespooQS r. one teaspoon cinnamon. Cream ..butlor. add the sugar gradually |td the egg well beaten. Then odd flour mixed and sifted with the |king powder. Chill, -toss one-half mixture on a floured board, roll *-elghth of an inch thick. Shape ^ doughnut cutter. Brush over |tH white of egg ond sprinkle with mixed with cinnamon. Split alinond.i and ..arrange three ss on each, rises apart on Chocoldfe Jumbles — One-half cup butter or margarine, three squares melted chocolate, one cup brown su gar, one egg. one-half cup sour milk, one and one-half cups flour, one- fourth teaspoon soda, one-half tea spoon baking powder, salt. one-haiC cup nut meata Cream the shorten- ing.^add melted chocolate and sugar togethef, then the unbeaten egg, sour. Vnilk, sod flour sifted with sodu. bak ing powder and salt. Add ntit meats and drop from spoon on grbased tin sheet and bake in a moderate oven (tTb degrcea Fahrenlielt? about ten minutes. /ifePreservCTS the lawraa on the Jhoad of iwet- a^ Ui it itaad upiJde ; In. % G8^ 91^ WaMT to rid greased floured, tin and bake in a moderate oven at STS degreca Fah renheit • Suffsstiens Wash Playthings There are many factors to be con sidered in selecting playthlnK.'i for children — their age and sex. of course, their tastes and their dispositions, and their needs and interests as far as physical exercise is conrcrniHl. The toys should be interesting hnd stinui- latlDg, substantial and easy to i-are for, ano most important of alt. safe and sanitary- The toys that children like bfst are not tne ones that remain standing on the shelf in the play room. THey are picked up and petted, taken to bod at night, handled with sticky nugers. dropped on dust> floors and dirty streets, and. in tho cose of infanta, chewed and bitten many tlinea during their term of usefulncsa These are some of the reasons why manufacturers are providing washable variations of the old fooii- ioned tops and many new ones be- aides. Many of these iinett not I m ' rellnquishad even when the ilaily Kith hour comes around. alnc« they emerg(^ froipiho audity depths ot tho tub as'fresh as their glowing owners When they become soiled, thv>' can be iw>aked, scrubbed with soap and water. rInMd, and hung on the linu to dry If nu-usssjy. You can' l>uy washable btUla and building biui'ks. dons._ ^ fufQlture. rattles, wooden foldisli, and'wooMy animals.' mechanical ' toys Oaa li# .Tfsahed i( ih«y art Qtrattiilr rlBtsd CSd dried. ; • TO DIANE T he r'lddy poppies bend and bow, Diane! do you remember? Tho sun you knew sblnei proudly now, The 'lake still lists the breexes vow, Your towers are fairer for their stains, Each stono you smiled upon re mains. Sin^ low — whore is Diane? Diana! do you remember? M rs . P. — There is nothing thati be rubbed on the abdomen, no matter how well advertised it is, that in any way going to lessen the labor pains. However, a daily, or twice-daily massage of the kind, a report should be mode to tbe doctor St once. We have an article on the.Diet During I*rcgnancy and Nursing and a list of books recommended to moth ers, both of which you can obtain by following column rules. I come to find .you through the years, Diane! do you remember? For none may rule my love ’ s soft fears. The ladies now are not your peers, 1 seek ydu through your tarnished halls, Pale sorrow on my spirit falls. High, low — where is Diane? Diane! do you remember? 1 crush the poppies where I trend, Diane! do yoa remember? Your flower of life, so bright, so , red-^ Sho does not hear — Diane it dead. 1 pace, the sunny bowers alone Where naught of her bemains but stone. Sing low — whore is Diane? Diane does not remember, — /fclen Ifay WMfney <l8-i- akin on the ab domen with any oil will very often prevent the little wUMiS stripes which may ap pear after any great stretching 4f the skin (on any port of the body). But don ’ t have to ten times the value of any simple oil to get this in a patented PETERB. M n ^orm. To insure a normal labor, a wonuui should be under the care of a physician from the first, and if it Is a first baby, a specialist in maternity coses (an ob- sterician). if (tosslble. The first thing he will do is to give an examtnatiou to be sure that there is no abnormal ity in measurements or organs! a check-up of the general physical con dition (blood, blood pressure, heart, kidneys, etc.) : then the diet and ex ercises and general hygienic program will be outlined. If the physician has kept up with the advance of his science, he will advise tbe patient not to gain'(un less she is underweight) more then the 16 to SO pounds allowed for the weight of the baby und Rs coverings, and that during the last three or four montha If the patient Is overweight in the beginning, he advises hep to reduce gradually. If the case is a normal one. he will give some special exercises to strengthen the abdomi nal wall, and prcs(frlbe walks in the air and sunshine, etc. Furthermore, he will reassure the patient that qhe needn't be afraid that any scares, or Krucsome sight, or little accidents are going to \mark** tho baby, for babies are not marked in that way. A pregnant-woman should visit her doctor eveiT three or four weeks, up to tho last month, when she shouM go every two weeks. Naturally, if there is any unusual symptom aris ing, such as bleeding, exceu vomit ing, severe headache or pains of any \Dear Doctor; Can you tell me what is the matter with my four- year-old girl? She cries boemuse her arms and legs ache, usually at night. She is very active, although she has a poor appetite and weighs only 94 pounds. Have had her tonsils and adenoids removed about three months SKO. MRS. O. ” It used to be believed that such pains in a child were \growing pains. ” But it is now believed that theee pa*ne ere an expreselon of eomethtng wrong, possibly the beginning of rheumetlo fever, due to an Infection. This is roovt frequently transmitted through dUaaeed tonsils. You aay you have had your child's bed ton sils and adenoids removed, so evU dently she was hsving some trouble with them, and perhaps shs get her infection through them. You should put her under the care of a children's specialist Immediately, Mrff. O. Me will probably advise you to see that she la much less active, have you pay especial Attention to her diet so that she is built .up .to normal weight, give her sun baths, cod liver oil. and advisa other rem edial measures. We have a list of books on the gen eral..care and .feeding of children which you may have by following column rulea Editors Note: Dr. Peters cannot diagnose, nor give personal advice. If she considers, your questions of general interest, they wlU be an swered in the column. In turn. Re qpests foi^ articles on hand eiasl be accompanied by a fully eelN stressed, etamped envelope and Scents In coin for each: for tbe luunphlets on \Reducing and Qalt*- Ing,\ '*rhe Kidney and Ite Excre tions ” and the \Hygiene of .Women,' 10 Cents in coin (for each) and fully seir-addrcaaed. stamped envelope, mesf be encloeed. (Theee obargea are to cover the ooet of printing and handling.) Address Dr. Peters, In care of this .paper. Write legibly, and not oyer 900 words. ••DEAR MWI. LEE; Would it be considered forward if 1 should sue - gest to a certain young man 1 know, about corresponding? I have known him ' more than a year, and when ever he is in town he always rails mo up for a date. He seems to like i very much, or at leaat he shows by his actious. and I am very much in love with him. I am 23 jwani oict Please advise me. as I would not like to do it unless It wus right. BUK. ” There would be no harm at all In asking him to drop you a Itn#, 8u«. He may be waiting for you to hug- geet It. \DEAR VIHOINIA' LEE: I am only 19 and nUrrled.^ ’ But ray has left me and I cannot get her back. She wilt not believe in me and give me another clutnce, and 1 am sure that I love her. even though It la my falAt she lefk Can you tell me what to do? WORRIED BOY.\ Make good. Boy. Show her by your actions that ycu love her and that she may safely believe In you. TosM>rro«o: Candy Craving. Just Among Us Girls May Be Baked in Layers, Cup Cakes MAHOGANY CAKE (Mrs, .t/ofy Morton's Daily Tested Becipc.) Oiie-iialf cup milk, one-half cup cocoa, onc-half cup sugar. Mix and bring these Just to thshoillng i>oint.* ^ool. One-half cup butter, one cup sugar, thraa eggs, .Unbeaten, one teaspoon vanilla, two cups flour. oiic-haJf teas|taon soda, onc-holf teaspoon suit, two u-aspoons baking powder, two-thtrds cup milk. C!iiain shorteniiig thoroughly, add rugar Ri'udu.illy, and beat well. Add the uidieaten egga, onu at a liitie, and bi-at iH^t'A'ccn each addition. Add flavoring. Sift the dry Ingredient'i togetjiqr apd add alternately wltfi tba milk. Rake in u iiioiKitS ovetii 96f. defats, for 39 mltuites. Tbts Imttn will bake in any pan, thrav OM detp Hhael or qgt) iiksa, ^ ■ f y-:. tMBARRASSiNGr S'iTUATIOM^ _ jusb as YOU dpc (Lxchandino a rfiPb - viho should comu alond- bub / (^e,®tb-toyou/ -.-I ••DEAR VIRGINIA LEEi I am a girl II years .old and In second year high school. I am very blue because my parents wwnT wllow tne to go anywhere. Mother doesn't object to having girl friends come to tbe bouse, but she won't allow me to go' to their homea When 1 tell her thiy won ’ t C'om|' to see me. she saya 'Welli if they don't like it they don ’ t have to coma* \Another Is I have a great ambi tion to become a movie star. That has been my ambition ever since I was a little girl When 1 aay imy- thlfig about It my parents tell me not to mention It again. . P'^ease tel) m what to da AMBITIO.V. \P. 8. I am very: bashful ' A neighbor of ours tells me I cm never be a movie stgr because of it. I tell her that I will get over it, but she doesn ’ t think so. do you?** Your mothej('s e^ct that you mustn't visit your girt friends o.*r- tainjy makes It liard for you. Maybq when she knows the girls real well sbe won't mind. Wonder if some of the girls* mothers couldn't be induced to coll on your mother so ss to get acquainted? 1 get sort of discouraged wlfh par ents on account of you youngsters* comrlointa wnd have to remind ifiy- self .thsi there' ARE reasonable < and plenty of them. Ho you want to be a movie star, do you? Well, of course, about 9J99.999 other girls your age Iwvr the Mme aftibitlon. No harm In it at lU!. Of course, you ret^lt)^ that lee are rapidly changing and that with the \squawkies. ” os sonic wags- ster calls 'them, here to stay. i ema star wlU necil much more train ing and talent to \put l^er than ever before. 8he must havs i trained voice and real acting ability besides a pretty foes snd form, ycu must b^ prepared for ptenty of hsrd Hsrk. os well os c<unpotltioii. to arrive. As to the bashfulncsa. ui; course you'll get ovrr'il^ h'oigcii
